K.
P. S. MENON
Much
has been written about Mrs. Sarojini Naidu in this, the centenary year of her
birth, as a poet, “The Nightingale of India.” Much has also been written about
her as a patriot and politician and a friend of politicians, including the
greatest of them all, Mahatma Gandhi. This article merely
contains some personal memories about her.
I
met Mrs. Sarojini Naidu first exactly sixty years ago in 1919 in
With all her sense of fun Mrs. Naidu could be dead
serious. She had a sharp, but not vitriolic, tongue, of which I had a taste in
Swanwick. Those were the days when British women still did not have the right
to vote: militant women known as suffragetted were
raucously clamouring for it. At our conference we
held a debate on the subject “Women do not deserve equality with men.” I was
persuaded to move the resolution, largely because no one else would. There were
two speakers on either side. Then came Mrs. Naidu’s speech. The full brunt of her delicious wrath fell
on my head. When my turn came to reply, I tried to mollify her by paying her a
compliment, “If all women were like Mrs. Naidu,” I said, “they would rule the
State and I would recede into the kitchen.” “No, no,” exclaimed Mrs. Naidu.
“When I am ruler of the State I shall not let you recede into the kitchen. I
seat you and Chettur (a very promising undergraduate
of my time) to my right and left as my Son and the Holy Ghost. Which of you
is the Son and which the Holy Ghost, I shall leave it to you to guess.”
My
second encounter with Mrs. Naidu was also in
Seven
years passed before I set eyes on Mrs. Naidu again. I called on her in
Wolves
of the mountains,
Hawks
of the hills
We
live or perish
As Allah wills.
Two
gifts for our portion
We
ask thee, O Fate,
A
maiden to cherish,
A kinsman to hate.
Children
of danger,
Comrades
of death,
The
wild scent of battle
Is
breath of
our breath.
Yet
sweet in the dusk haze
When
conflict has ceased,
When
red feuds are sated
And
honour appeased,
Aloft
in our watch-towers
To
rest, to regale
Our
hearts with gay laughter
Of ballad and tale.
And
sweet in the stillness
And
fragrance of night
To
find for our pillow
Twin
moons of delight,
To
find for our curtain
A
tent of dark kisses,
And
crowning our valour
A wreath of caresses.
Wolves
of the mountains,
Hawks
of the hills,
We
live or perish,
As Allah wills.
For
the next twenty years we used to meet Mrs. Naidu off and on in
Once
at a luncheon party at the Viceregal Lodge, to which
she was invited soon after she was released from jail, she told Lord Willingdon that perhaps in their next births their roles
might be reversed and she might have the honour of
sending him to jail. “It would be a pleasure and a privilege for me”, said Willingdon chivalrously, “to be sent to jail by you. But I
do not think that you will have the heart to do it.” “No”, said Mrs. Naidu, “I
shall send you to jail with a heavy heart even as you did me.” The woman that
she was, she always had the last word.
Once
she had the last word even vis
a vis the irrepressible Rajaji. When Rajaji was
Governor of Bengal, Mrs. Naidu visited him. He took her round the
house, including the bedroom, and pointed to the magnificent bed and trappings,
and said, “But of what use is all this to me, a septuagenarian
widower?” “Now, now”, said Mrs. Naidu, “I have come to your help on many
occasions, Rajaji, but I cannot this time.”
In
1948 on my return to
In
her presidential speech Mrs. Naidu seized on this incident and commented on it
with gusto. It showed, she said, the power the female can exercise over the
male. Fancy sixteen males being bewitched by a single mare! It is a lesson for
human males too. If men do not treat women properly, they have at their
disposal weapons which will compel their submission. “See”, she said, alluding
to her first meeting with me at Swanwick thirty years
earlier, “how completely an anti-feminist like K. P. S. had been tabled by a
purposeful woman!”
Even
Mahatma Gandhi was not immune from Mrs. Naidu’s
delightful raillery. It was she who invented that lovely nickname for him,
Mickey Mouse.” And it was she who once said to him, “You do not know, Mahatmaji, how much it costs the nation to keep you in
poverty.” During his last incarceration in the Aga
Khan’s palace in